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My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

09.06.2025 03:31

My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

If your breasts provide milk without hurting or poisoning your children your husband should be thankful.

If your children have to take formula or drink too much water at the water fountain, maybe your husband should be grateful anyway though your children have a right to complain and as parents you should do what you can to make sure your children are developing functioning brains and personalities. If you’re trying to do evil slight of hand I think it’s easier on girls though there’s no reason to send any boys through transition just because their parents have a thing for boobs.

Column | Nervous about using the bathroom at work? A gastroenterologist shares advice. - The Washington Post

Maybe you had implants installed, or maybe you gained cupsizes from lactation.

Otherwise, it is also possible you gained brain mass from understanding children which is respectable too.

I'm looking for an answer from people who consider themselves "Gender Critical", or transphobic, or TERFs, and my question is this - Why would you refuse to use the pronouns someone wants? What does it cost you? Where's the harm?

My honest guess: